There are many dating apps out there. You can get matched with a single dad, a dog lover, a spiritual guru, a famous person, or just go for the hook up sites. The world is yours and quite a few of these apps are becoming outdated. I have noticed, being in and out of the game through the (many) years that EVERYONE is on Bumble. Most men I know are on atleast 3 if not more sites and most women can barely handle 1. So ladies, just stick with Bumble. If you feel you aren't getting enough matches it's worth the cost to upgrade to see who likes you. It takes out the guessing game and the endless swiping. The only drawback is that because Bumble is a ladies say hello first type of dating app the men take this to mean we should chase them and have now become what i call Lazy Dating. They wait for you to engage them, to chat them up and to even ask them out. I joined Bumble because it felt safe to have control in an arena that can be overwhelming but why do men take this as we want total control? I still want a man to ask me questions, get excited about the potential out there and ask me out on a date. I just want to be in a safe place while this is going on. Not to be bombarded all day with 25 year olds looking for a MILF hook up. (Truthfully if I wasn't so set on finding my mate I would go get me some abs......maybe just once won't hurt...maybe tomorrow.....ok i'm back). So ladies, stay strong and search for that diamond in the rough. Let him make you feel special. Don't succumb to lazy dating. You are the Queen B.